Relationship

We all are social by nature (as books say).
I mean most of the people... or for most of the time. You can take what ever applies to you.

During the course of our life we come across many people.
Some become friends, some best friend, some girlfriend / boyfriend... people whom you start liking...

While few become enemy, whom you dislike...
The point is we keep getting into relationship. Good or bad.

Every relationship you get into becomes a part of you; whether you want it or not.
It lives as long as you live.

One of the easiset things to happen - Getting into relationship .
Anywhere ...Anyone... Anytime
You never even know when it starts.
Sometimes it happens on its own... other times we work to build it.

Whatever be the way everybody needs relationship.
People who boast 'I am happy alone'; need a relationship most.

Maintaining a relationship is not easy. Especially as we grow since age covers us with thick layer of basic human selfishness and ego.

At times relationship break.
You go through feelings of losing somebody who once used to be very dear.
Howsoever you try; things don't seem to work.
You feel helpless ... not able to do anything about it.
You feel frantic.... cry within not to break....
Alas you lose.

To breakup with some one you still love is painful.
As it is said
"To try to forget someone whom you love is like trying to remember someone whom you have not met".

We lose friend and lose peace ... get pain.
Some people show it while others hide it.
Ironically life keeps moving... tick... tick... tick...
Soon we get new people into our lives and we start moving. We are happy again.
After 1-2 years we even forget those people whom we lost.

However whenever we look back; we regret to have lost some beautiful days of life which could have been made more happier.
We realize our mistakes ... by then it is too late.

Life is big... but not as big as we think.
We can think to be complete and strong; however within we all are weak and incomplete .. in need of people to love us.

There are little things that mean a lot in any relationship.
Appreciate and respect each other's differences.
Always remember that no two people in this world can be same. Compromise a bit on few things.
Be open to talk; do not keep accumulating things in your heart.
Express your love.

Throughout our lives we keep running after many things.. money, materialistic posessions
We never realize one basic truth ... it is people who make our life more meaningful and happy.

Driving in New York Part IV

We made a fool's decision... We decided to drive back to New york... to JFK

Time was running short and so was fuel...
We had to stop for fuel... which too killed on time...

I was doing best to get to Airport...
Crossed Lincoln tunnel and entered New york

In haste did break a few traffic rules... didn't got caught though

At a point seeing the traffic I gave up... I realized it won't be possible
I parked my car and asked my friends to take Taxi....
I gave them whatever Cash they had....

Wait for Taxi was also quite long...
Finally they took Taxi and headed to Airport...

and we started to move back..
We had to take some cassh from a ATM before we could set off...
We searched for a nearest ATM and the nearest one was in China town...

We were in altogether different world... inside China town it hardly looks like US
Whether you look at stores or people around you...
It is really china in US

The roadways were too narrow... so I parked my Car and my friend voluntered to walk from there to ATM to get money...

Waiting there all alone ... waiting in a crowd of people .... different people...
I desperately wanted my friend to come back soon...

It was a sigh of relief when I did saw him coming back...
We started back... out of the city... away from crazy traffic... continuing to make a few mistakes ...

I was very happy when I finally took exit from the city... I decided that it was the last time that I did drive on roads of New york

I was tired ... driving for nearly last 5 hours...
Finally reached home :)